from a Book

No One Can Predict
Or Control The Future.

However, The More Clearly You
Imagine
What You Want To See Happen,

Plan For It,

And Do Something Today
To Help It Happen,

The Less Anxious You Are
In The Present,

And The More The Future
Is Known To You

(cited from "The Present")

actually, that's the way i have been making effort for the relationship between us ......