Hay Time

Yesterday I attended the Wedding Benquet of Hay, our currect Assistant Project Manager at night. The banquet dinner started at 8pm and i arrived the restaurant at 7:30. it was my first time to attend wedding benquet without being accompanied by my family members. I had have no idea what i should do before attending. mama had instructed me to prepare a 人情, which is best in the format of gift certificate that can be converted into cash. but i didn't think i have time to buy certificate in the bank so i decided to use cash instead.

after i handing over my 人情 and signed my big name at the reception, the beautify "Sisters" told me that my colleagues who had arrived were at that moment playing majong and i headed to look for them. there stephen, debby, croco and e-wing were competing with each other. i had no great interest in majong, so i just sat still to wait for the time of dinner.

at 8:00 our team rushed towards the stage to take a photo with Hay. he looked incredibly handsome that day and it was the first time i met her wife. it was amazing to hear that the two of them had been in romantic relationship for 9 years before marriage.

we soon took our seat after dinner as the dinner was about to begin. the boys, including me, were all surprised and impressed by my direct "little girl boss" vincci's not-wearing-glass look! she looked superbly decent. stephen was the most crazy one and eager to take photos with vincci. she was extremely shy and embarressed by our reaction. haha~ the scenario was so funny!

the dinner started and the 2 MC materialized on the stage to give a general speech which it seemed nobody cared. then it came to a video recorded at the day of wedding. in the video, hay and his "brothers" kept doing sth on-9 funny tasks requested the wife-side and it made many attendants there laugh out loud.

after the video the cuisine was handed out one by one, of course beginning with fried pig (the pig head was taken back home by stephen after the banquet) . most of the dishes were edible for me and i felt satisfied. our team kept chatting and joking through the dinner. some of us, including but not limited to stephen & e-wing, were drinking heavily and pushing others, especially girls, to drink with them. yes, as expected.

at that night apparently e-wing drank the most and all his responses were delayed owing to the effect of alcohol. but thanks god, he didn't did any stupid or aggressive things. (later we heared from croco he vomited on they same way home)

Yo ! 使乜驚呀 !

我講得好

冇錯！日子咪又係咁過！

做人想開開心心，話咁易啦 ~

that's why

yes
i am surely supposed to be happy
but at this moment i can't be

and soon i know why ...

it's because someone fails to share the supposed happiness with me,
or maybe because she's not optimistic enough to sense that kind of happiness ...
while, at the same time, her heart is one of the few essential factors in this world constituting my happiness

so i can't be as happy as i am supposed to be

it's the simple logic

Ain't I supposed to be happy?

it is supposed ...

家

再過多十多個小時
我便要作用一個的決定
這個決定其實不算太大
因為我早已決定了購買
現在只頭痛買哪個而已

智者千慮，都總有一失
我亦不是毫無考慮個中問題
只知道大前題是對的
過程亦不違背個人原則和目的
那要做便做

不少人做事經常不成功
就是因為想多於做
女士們一味想減肥
於是花了很多時間上網、看書、討論
目的為了找出一條無敵減肥方程式
結果方法有了，就是沒恆心去做

我是一個善於堅持的人

我自小對很多物質沒多大興趣
不好名牌、不好電子、不好鞋、不好衫
幾乎到所有一般男孩子花費很多的，我都不好
於是
自自然然培養了儲蓄的習慣
不是刻意的斤斤計較
只不過真的沒地方可花錢

我最關注的反而是一個舒適的家
亦甘願為這個家付出很多
希望住在這個家的每一個人都快樂

人成熟了
便希望擁有一個屬於自己的家
一個能夠靠自己的努力爭取回來的居所
然後和喜歡的人於其中細水長流
這便是我的理想、我的世界

雖然我能力有限
亦不願強人所難
但於這一刻，趁還年輕力壯
我甘心默默耕耘
起碼能為吾願付出了自己的一份兒
才算對得起自己
畢竟我是個樂觀的人
總相信努力必有回報 (或多或少吧！)

我的家
造就了我的一齊

1.3 Million

what i have to do is saving money
and i have a gift of it

無得解

這不是妳想要的生活
卻是我想過的日子

世事怎能盡如人意
正如愛情，係無點解o既 ......

Gun is Fine, Man is NOT

The numbers show that if you have a swimming pool in your backyard and a gun in the house, the swimming pool is 100 times more likely to kill your child than your gun. Now, I am not a complete defender of guns, but people respect guns and treat them with respect. And they know the dangers. But people don't always treat swimming pools with respect. They don't realize what great dangers they pose to children. (cited from Freakonomic)

C.A.R.

C.A.R is an internal document. Its template is being circulated in the server and staff can easily access wheneven they need. Yet it is best avoided anyway.

C.A.R. at present functions as an official confession letter. Staff of the customer service team are strictly required, if he or she make any sufficient mistakes or so-called "non-comformance" on his or her duties, to complete the CAR form to detailedly explain the mistake made; most important, the staff are expected to propose a comprehensive strategy or solution which may effectively help settle the problems and avoid any similar cases in the future. It is said that the collection of CAR would on one hand act as one of the appraisal consideration factors, and be handed over to Quality Assurance Department for evaluation on the other.

CAR has been enforced for more than a month since invented by Boss, and its ustiziation are dramatically increasing. All CS are shook by Boss' abuse of CAR on them and they are scared by the serious attitude taken by the managerial level.

For example, CS witnessed today that Ms. OT was harshly scolded by Boss just because she intended to bargain with him for the surcharge on a job. Some of us really showed sympathy, and at the same time, hope that we won't be the next one ourselves.

fine, it's ok to cry......

病夫日誌

i have been sick for nearly 2 weeks, suffering from sort of flu. i am not sure, and i don't really care what disease it is. it is of course quite worrying to me since i seldem get into circumstances like these. what do you think if 2 weeks without recovery?

i am feeling better now. i can sense it. and i found i've got much thinner. finally i release the best way to eliminate the oil in your belly is to get badly ill. for me, i've stopped my regular gyming and jogging since i got sick, but the six-pact has somehow materialize itself without putting effort i did in vain for long previously.

i expect that i am going back to work next monday, and i am really to accept the nickname of 病夫 from now on.

what i want to say is, other people's care on you is very crucial while you are struggling with the disease.

活著 fever

Men Want

just finished the book What Men Want today. suen gave it to me last time when she finished cleaning up her book shelves. it is an old book from her brother. it is the one that u will keep nodding when u read, as long as you do have a penis.

it talks about scores of different issues a woman should pay attention to when she is dating, or going to date, with an ordinary professional man. most of the topics applies to all normal men, regardless of his profession, nationality and how much he loves his lady.

i was amazed again by American's attitude towards sex. so causal. very nice!

actually many of my friends wonder why the 2 of us could be compatible to each other, and, after reading What Men What and Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, i have a clue. that is, both of us have characters of both men and women.

u feel me?

嘿

prof

i am sick, and, without my requested, the doctor offered me 2 days of sick leave. i have spent these 2 days mostly at home to take rest and to read.

i think i'll soon completely recover since i found my nasal secretion became green in color, which is, according to my mum's interpretation, an indictation of recovery. believe it or not.

i woke up at 1pm today, and after lunch my mum asked me to go to HSBC to make a registration of stock account in the purpose of easy application for the upcoming stocks. there i approached a customer service lady for assistance. the pretty young lady helped me registered and, of course, introduced many plans to me, including medical insurances as well as saving plannings. she also reviewed my present financial status so that i could have a better consideration on my future about which i currently had no idea.

the lady is very professional.
at least, comparatively, much more professional than i am in my profession.

金句

溝不到的女孩是港的

(by 有個人)